I saw it immediately and quickly posted a reply. But as soon as I clicked on the “Post” button, Tyler’s tweet and photo had disappeared. Deleted. But the Interwebs never forget. Kat (@RunsOnDuncan) was able to dig up the image that someone had immediately posted on Tumblr. (Don’t mess with those Tumblr Babies.)
I like Tyler a lot, too, frequently fan-girling over him and posting love notes to him on Twitter. But it’s all in jest. I don’t have any illusions about Tyler’s sexual preference, or wonder if he might be gay and closeted. I also don’t question how he could be so nice and still be straight. As if those two things were mutually exclusive.
Why did Tyler post the photo in the first place? Was it because Paul said the thinks people in “mass” (Boston, Massachusetts) are “asshole?” Or was he genuinely surprised to be getting such a forward sexual advance from a gay guy and wanted advice from, oh, say, me? It’s hard to believe this is the first time it’s happened.
And why did Tyler delete the photo and tweet so quickly? Most likely because Paul’s full name is completely visible, and Tyler suddenly realized he was essentially outing the guy all over the Internet. Gay guys attracted to straight men or closeted gay men are often closeted themselves to some degree.
So, while I feel a little bad for Paul having his private messages publicly outed, the moral of the story is, don’t make sexual advances to a famous athlete using your real name on the Internet. And never say all people who live in Massachusetts are assholes when you live in Massachusetts.